So I did what most Christians do: I lied a lot, both to myself and others. What do you do when faced with the tension and mess of disagreements? Some of us may be guilty of one or more of the following: • Say one thing to people’s faces and then another behind their backs • Make promises we have no intention of keeping • Blame • Attack • Give people the silent treatment • Become sarcastic • Give in because we are afraid of not being liked • “Leak” our anger by sending an email containing a not-so-subtle